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Category: Civic Engagement

This is what democracy looks like

Like 175,000 other people, I spent much of my Saturday in the middle of Boston, cheek to jowl with other people, wearing a pink hat and holding a sign.

My signs
My signs

It was an incredible experience for me. I’ve never marched in a protest before. I dislike crowds, and I don’t seek danger. I think that everyone who read through the advice before the march had to think seriously about whether this was safe. It was full of things like Don’t wear makeup, since it traps tear gas and Write your lawyer’s name on your arm in sharpie. I took the precaution of marching with a lawyer, and went anyway.

I never made it in to the Common - we hung out at the starting line
I never made it in to the Common – we hung out at the starting line

My first experience with marching included a lot of standing and not-quite-hearing what the speakers were saying. I guess that somehow they didn’t expect 175k people to turn out, and didn’t have the sound system extending that far. Fair enough. But it also included being surrounded by a panoply of different people. Latinxs, grandmas, veterans, construction workers, middle-aged mamas, kiddos, teen boys climbing trees. It seemed like every walk of life was there, every age, every color. And it seemed like all of them were cheerful, determined and patient. And wearing ridiculous pink hats. (Even the construction workers!) The unions were in force, as the volunteers who helped people figure out where to go and how to move. People moved slowly be necessity, and took in the signs, t-shirts, posters and aprons of their fellow-marchers.

I kept trying to take VR photos to show the magnitude
I kept trying to take VR photos to show the magnitude of the crowd

As we walked (at a snail’s pace!) along the march route, the bystanders would often kick us off into a call. We’d walk in and out of the chant. One of the persistent ones was a call-and-response:

Call: Show me what democracy looks like!
Reponse: This is what democracy looks like.

This is what democracy looks like
This is what democracy looks like

It was an emotional and powerful affirmation to realize that yes. This is what a democracy looks like. I savored it. (And for the record, the Boston Police agree that it was an astonishingly peaceful event.

Jesus is a radical
Jesus is a radical

I ran into two folks I knew in the course of the march (which – I probably knew 80 people there in total, based on my friends checking in on Facebook!). Both of them were people I’d met in the church. One was Pastor Rob Mark from a fellow Presbyterian Church. Two were folks I’d gone to church with for years – whose daughter had been in my confirmation class. We caught up and chatted as we walked. My signs – my reason for marching – were very much rooted in my faith. One of the scriptures I find most meaningful is Matthew 25:31-46 – a quick summary of which is here:


Matthew 25:34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

Part of my posse
Part of my posse

I realized as I walked though that very few of the signs I saw had a scripture on them. The church on the corner played the great hymns of the civil rights movement (We Shall Overcome!). My friends showed their faith. But the word pussy outnumbered the word Jesus by many multiples. And that showed me where we’re falling down, friends. I don’t mind the pussy-posters at all. But I’m saddened that Christians were not very visible to point out that the call to help the poor and welcome immigrants comes at Jesus’ own command.

Teen Vogue, the new voice of responsible journalism in America (I’m not even kidding!), ran a thoughtful piece on how one of the civic changes we’ve experienced over the last generation is a decrease in participation in non-governmental democratic organizations. People aren’t practicing democracy on the small, local scale like they used to. They aren’t running for office in the Elk’s Club, taking leadership roles in the Masons or signing up with the Kiwanas on the same scale they did in prior generations. When’s the last time you voted on something – a real binding vote – that wasn’t governmental?

Well, the last time I did was today. It was the day of my Presbyterian Church’s annual meeting. We convened with Robert’s Rules of Order as our (generally) guiding principal. We made motions and didn’t argue about them until there was a second. We elected officials to represent not our own will, but the will of God as they see it. We read through our budget line by line, asked detailed questions, and got answers. We practiced our democratic skills.

This is also what democracy looks like
This is also what democracy looks like

It was a very democratic weekend, and an inspirational one. There is still so much to be done. There are people who have great fear right now: the dark skinned, the immigrant/stranger, the sick, those in prison, the hungry, the poor. But this Sunday I stand in hope that we will come together and protect and serve God through serving his needy people. So let’s turn the energy of this march into the deep-rooted and faithful work that needs to be done.

I finished my march before some marchers could start
I finished my march before some marchers could start
Posted on January 23, 2017January 22, 2017Categories Civic Engagement, FaithTags civic activism, democracy, march, matthew 25, social justice1 Comment on This is what democracy looks like

Learning how to be us

Train ride to Washington - the glow of the screens compels you
Train ride to Washington – the glow of the screens compels you

I’ve always admired those people who seem to know exactly who they and their families are right from the get-go. I’ve discovered that my family identity isn’t a matter just of me deciding what it is, but more of discovery. For example, are we roller coaster people? Do we like roadtrips? When traveling, do we want a night to dress up fancy? Do the kids like museums as much as their parents do?

That latter point is one of great interest to me. The kids are approaching the peak age for really cool travel opportunities – able to keep up with the grownups and still interested in doing so. I’d really like to take them to see some of the great sights of the world in the next decade or so. (Yikes! Grey will be graduating from college in just over a decade!!!) But the question “are we museum people” must be answered – affirmatively – before I’ll do such a thing.

And so we snuck away for a week in DC this Thanksgiving.

Looking one way
Looking one way
Looking the other
Looking the other

We took the train to our nation’s capital. I drove five years ago, and it was a long drive. (I got my first ever speeding ticket that trip!) Plus, parking was an expensive problem in the city. It wasn’t useful to have a car. Air travel is necessary most of the time, but it’s not an enjoyable way to travel. In a train, there’s enough room to move around, but you don’t have to drive. Perfect.

The kids were so excited, I’m pretty sure they were expecting the Hogwarts or Orient Express – not the Amtrak Regional.

Exhibits
Exhibits

We stayed at the Embassy Suites. I’ve stayed there for business, and thought that it would be perfect with both the living and sleeping areas well separated. We could stay up after the kids went to bed, and there was room to hang out. It worked perfectly. Everyone brought their screens this trip (we all enjoy video games!). There was room enough for all of them – plus a table big enough for puzzles! There was a pool and a hot tub, and a tiny kitchenette good enough for heating and cooling things. It was pretty perfect!

On our trip we saw the Spy Museum (our favorite) and we walked the Mall. We spent Thanksgiving at the National Museum of the American Indian where we had a great native lunch for our main Thanksgiving meal. (The museum itself was not massively impressive, although I loved the native dancers!) We also snuck over to the Air and Space Museum while the crowds were low. We did the Museum of Natural History, watched Moana in the theaters (very fun!). We closed up our trip with a lovely walk to the Archives, where we saw the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution and the Bill of Rights.

Delicious Thanksgiving meal of native foods
Delicious Thanksgiving meal of native foods

We played a lot of video games, too. And went swimming. And played Pokemon Go. And read books. And slept in. It was awesome.

So…. I guess this is how our family vacations!

Family portrait!
Family portrait!
Posted on November 28, 2016November 28, 2016Categories Adventures, Art, Civic EngagementLeave a comment on Learning how to be us

The fabled bird, the phoenix

Arise, arise!
Arise, arise!

My playlist has kept pointing me to a particular song in the last few days. It’s the Mitchell Trio’s “Phoenix Bird“. I went to go look it up to see what history (and Youtube) had to say about it. I found… absolutely nothing. Not a single Youtube video exists of it. You can’t find it on Amazon, or Google music. It’s lost. There’s no tale of the context or history. I can only tell you what the words say.

But I’m finding it meaningful lately. The Mitchell Trio were social justice warriors fifty years ago, the last time we seriously fought the fight between those who think some people are worth less than others, and those who believe all people are created equal. Their other songs ranged from tongue in cheek to weep-worthy. (See In the Summer of His Years for that.) The Phoenix Bird talks about fighting this good fight again and again. It reminds me that brave people paid prices in blood for making courageous stands against bigotry. These singers are folk of their era, so they talk about “men”, and how men will continue to arise as needed to fight for freedom. But the call goes out to all of us.

I’m not sure it’s entirely encouraging, this cyclical fight that we have fought over generations since we first kidnapped and enslaved and forever exiled from their homes entire nations of people. But I am encouraged to arise and fight – for freedom.

Phoenix Bird
Mitchell Trio – from “The Violets of Dawn”
The story’s told
Of the days of old,
And the fabled bird, the phoenix.

The bird was killed,
And its wings were stilled
In a fire that burned with fury.

The flames grew cold
And then bird of gold
Then arose from the burned out ashes –

Rose to the sky,
There to circle high
Forever and ever after.

So the story’s told
Of those days of old
And that fabled bird, the phoenix.

And now once again,
Oh yes once again,
Once again that fabled story.

For freedom’s pride
Men are crucified
On a burning cross of hatred.

The flames may kill
Yet more men will arise! Arise!
For freedom.

Posted on November 16, 2016November 16, 2016Categories Art, Civic EngagementTags chad mitchell trio, phoenix3 Comments on The fabled bird, the phoenix

Love, Accomplished

Love indeed
Love indeed

Anyone who has been following my Facebook feed has been inundated in the last two weeks by reminders: get your tickets now! Here’s an awesome silent auction item – bid now! How about this one! I do sort of feel sorry for my friends when I get neck deep in a project/election/initiative. You’re all very patient.

This project was a big one – one of our friends needed to raise $15,000 to get her four year old son with autism a service dog. Upon hearing this news, one of my other friends (who is completely irrepressible and amazing) declared that we were throwing a party to help! Maybe we’d raise as much as $5 thousand dollars!

Things got completely out of hand at that point.

Somehow, we got branded as the “Stoneham Social Club”. (That sounds so official. Trust me – it’s not official.) We got a hall. Then we needed to get people to fill it. The moms in my group of moms (who have pretended at points to be a book club, but let’s be honest – we mostly hang out once a month and catch up while, um, drinking wine) knocked on the doors of practically every business in town. We hit up our friends. And somehow we got thousands of dollars of auction and raffle gifts donated.

We started meeting weekly, and our meetings had actual agendas. Craziness!

There was a live band. There was the cash bar. Tablecloths were the subject of a major crisis. Table decorations. Significant and long discussions happened regarding the methodology of raffles & how to run a simultaneous online & in person silent auction.

I was responsible for all digital media and the auctions. Since it just so happened our crazy crew included a top-notch graphic designer, I had some good materials to work with. I created a website, a Facebook page, an event. One of my friends came up with the genius idea of using Facebook commenting to run the simultaneous silent auction. I spent a lot of time trying to write clever text for the auction items.

It was a long run up. Tons of people worked so hard behind the scenes. People found donors. People put together amazing auction packages. People printed bid sheets.

Wall o' auction items
Wall o’ auction items

But oh my goodness, folks. It was amazing. We hit capacity at the Elk’s Club. The live music was perfect. The auction table was crammed with great items, and already well into the bidding. The food was delicious. Desserts were delectable. Apparently we set a new record for cash bar sales at that venue. There was dancing, laughing, and deeply competitive bidding for a gallon of maple syrup. There were heartfelt speeches, and tears of joy and love.

And we did it. We raised $15,000 for David to get his dog. And then we kept on going. The final tallies are still being calculated, but it’s somewhere between 20 and $25k. The extra will go to help pay for the month the family of five will need to spend in Ohio training the dog, and for health and life insurance on the puppy.

The place was packed
The place was packed

It’s been a hard year for believing in the goodness of people. There’s been death, violence, anger and ugliness on every page of every news site. You don’t have to go far to feel sick to your stomach about humanity. But my experience these last two months has been the complete opposite. People have been so generous, and so kind. An astounding number of people have gone out of their way to be loving and helpful. Any time work was needed, a multitude of cheerful hands went up to help do it. I’d love to name all the folks who contributed, but I suspect that list would exceed 100 … and I don’t even know the full tally!

So thank you. Thank you to all of you who put up with my posts. Thank you to those of you who bid on items. Thank you to those who came out to support David’s family. Thank you to those who donated items, even though you’d never met the sweet kid they’ll help. Thank you for those who opened your checkbooks. Thank you to all of you who opened your hearts. You’re good people, and I’m proud to know you.

And man, I can’t wait for our next meeting, when I plan on being completely frivolous.

Special  love to our partners, who worked tirelessly to support us in what we attempted
Special love to our partners, who were uncomplaining in their support of us
Posted on September 12, 2016September 11, 2016Categories Civic Engagement, StonehamTags love for alarcons, party, service dogLeave a comment on Love, Accomplished

Walkable Stoneham

The other day I dropped my car off to be detailed – a wonderful indulgence for a place where I spend so much time. The detailer is less than a mile from my house, so I drove out there, and walked back along one of Stoneham’s main streets – Montvale Avenue. As I did, I thought about what a missed opportunity it is that Montvale has never been looked at from a pedestrian’s point of view.

“If only” I thought, “Our awesome town had more money available to invest in sidewalks! It’s a little embarrassing that there’s no safe way to walk from the main express bus stop that goes directly to Boston, to our downtown.”

Well, I just learned that Stoneham has a clear-cut way to DOUBLE our sidewalk budget for the year. How awesome is that! Of course, nothing is ever as easy as it looks. Some folks on the Board of Selectmen are worried that Stoneham is doing too much awesome stuff (is that really possible?) and are unsure about whether we actually want the additional $400k in state money to build sidewalks. I know that *I* really want some better sidewalks. I am betting many other folks in Stoneham would too, so I wanted to encourage our Selectmen and ask them to work for this money.

To get the money, the town needs to:
1. Attend complete streets training (done)
2. Adopt a complete streets policy (One has been written, waiting board review)
3. Find a consulting company to do a study on our main issue areas and apply for a $50k grant from the state. (Done and won the grant. Trying to get board approval)
4. Complete study and submit projects to the state for $400k of money to construct.

Here’s some of what I’d do with that $400k, if I got to tell the selectmen what I want!

The route in question
The route in question

A key link in Stoneham’s public transit is the connection between the 345 Express Bus (that goes nonstop to State Street – it’s an amazing option) and our local 132 that goes to Oak Grove/Malden. If you imagine someone who doesn’t have a car, both of these are critical lifelines. Now imagine that person has a stroller, or is in a wheelchair. How are they going to get between them? I’ve definitely seen people in motorized wheelchairs actually IN the road in Montvale, which is a sign we have something wrong with our sidewalks. On my walk back from getting the car detailed, here were the worst spots for both safety and access.

1) The intersection of Maple & Montvale

Intersection of Maple and Montvale
Intersection of Maple and Montvale

Take a good look at this amazing piece of photography. You see what’s missing? Where are the crosswalks? HINT: There are none. This crossing feels very much like taking your life in your hands. There’s no place in it for a human not cradled in a few thousand pounds of metal. There are no crossing lights, no crosswalks. It’s a dangerous, scary intersection that completely isolates the 354 bus line from Stoneham. From where I was standing to take this picture, it was over a 10th of a mile in either direction for me to get to a marked crossing. I’m frankly surprised this is legal. This also makes it very unwelcoming for the workers in Unicorn to walk in to Stoneham center for a cup of coffee or lunch. Please note that anyone getting OFF the 354 gets off on this side of the street as well, so anyone looking to take the bus and then walk home has to navigate this intersection.

To fix: Well, crosswalks and crossing lights seem like a mighty fine addition to this intersection.


2) The housing complex at Mountain View Drive

No wheelchairs allowed
No wheelchairs allowed

This little section right here isn’t a problem if you’re walking. But imagine it in a wheelchair, or even with a heavy stroller. It’s hard to see, but that curb is HIGH.

To fix: sloped access ramps, like most sidewalks have.

3) Where did the sidewalk go?!?! AKA 91 Montvale

No sidewalk for YOU!
No sidewalk for YOU!

So you survive the intersection, you make it over the curb… and suddenly the pedestrian right of way completely disappears for 100 feet. Just to make it MORE fun, there’s an island that would push you directly into oncoming traffic if you were trying to navigate it with a stroller. This is another one where I’m mystified how this got approved. It’s definitely one of the harder ones to fix, too. We’ll need good advice from a civil engineer on how to make this less likely to lead to a sorrowful outcome for anyone trying to walk it.

To fix: ask an expert.

4) Still no sidewalk for you! (91 Montvale to Lindenwood Cemetery)

Notice that people do walk this, regularly
Notice that people do walk this, regularly

This dirt path shows something important: people are already walking this route. We have people traversing an unsafe situation. Some of them may be folks like me, who prefer the bipedal mode of transportation for health and enjoyment reasons. Many of them may walk because they have to walk. People walk this in the dark, and in the snow. It makes me sad that we’ve done such a poor job making it possible for them to do so safely and enjoyably.

To fix: pour a sidewalk.

5) The other side of the road (across from Stoneham Bank)

No sidewalk there, either
No sidewalk there, either

“But wait!” you say, “You’re just walking on the wrong side of the road. Surely the OTHER side is safe!”

I wish. Two things:

1) I still haven’t gotten to a crossing with a cross walk, so I couldn’t safely cross the road if I wanted to.
2) There are at least two spots on the other side of the road where the sidewalk also disappears. I’d argue I’m actually documenting the “good” side by walking on the northern side.

To fix: put in sidewalk where sidewalk belongs.

6) More for cars, less for people (in front of Montvale Plaza)

Another south-side, no sidewalk stretch
Another south-side, no sidewalk stretch

This stretch is a significant distance where there is absolutely no sidewalk on the south side of the street. During the evenings, there are often cars parked where sidewalk should be (another one where I really wonder how that squares with laws about such things). This sidewalkless stretch goes for almost a full block. I end up walking it often when we head down to Taj Indian Bistro, or back from a walk in Lindenwood.

Still no sidewalk
Still no sidewalk
Still, still no sidewalk
Still, still no sidewalk

To fix: remove parking, put in sidewalk instead.


So that’s my wishlist. I’d love to be able to walk safely to the express bus. I’d love to connect our downtown business with the hundreds of office workers in Unicorn Park. I’d love to make it so you can safely take a stroller down one of our main streets. And I’d really love it if our selectmen dig deep to find the extra energy to take the FINAL step to claim $400k to make it happen.

Do you have a sidewalk project you’d like to see in town? Can you buy into my vision? Please reach out to the board of selectman before the meeting on Tuesday, July 12 2016 to let them know. Or better yet, come to the meeting to let them know in person.

Here are the selectfolk contact information (in alphabetical order):

Tom Boussy –
tboussy@ci.stoneham.ma.us – (781) 832-0098
Caroline Colarusso –
(781) 438-5720 – info@selectcaroline.com (she also holds regular office hours)
Ann Marie O’Niell – (781) 832-0098 (Ann Marie – I’d love to include your email!)
George Seibold – sorry, he hasn’t made any contact information public. There’s a form on the town website
Anthony Wilson – AnthonyWilson4Stoneham@gmail.com

Posted on July 7, 2016July 8, 2016Categories Civic Engagement, Stoneham9 Comments on Walkable Stoneham

I am they

I distinctly remember a moment a few years ago. I was talking with my mother-in-law about the stuff I was doing at church. (Honestly, I was probably whining about being too busy.) She sympathetically replied, “Well, tell them that they need to find someone else to do this. It’s not your problem if they can’t find someone else.”

It was at that moment that I came to the stunning conclusion that has followed me ever since. I AM “they”.

“They” have a lot of responsibility. “They” should really put a sidewalk on that busy section of road. “They” should get the word out about the local election. “They” should do something about global warming. “They” should change the sign at church to be more welcoming. I mean, if it was really important, “they” would tell us, right? We hear and say the words “They should” every single day. Maybe many times.

And when we’re kids, there are plenty of “them” to make this seem accurate. Classes are taught. Afterschool programs are organized. Special events (from Mother’s Day Tea to graduation) just seem to emerge as the normal order of things, and all we need to do is offer criticism on how “they” could have done it better. But at some point you take your own turn at being “them”. You organize an event (or help organize it). You get appointed to a committee or board (and are thrilled that people take you so seriously!). You have a responsibility at work, where something won’t happen if you don’t make it happen.

Suddenly, all that criticism of “them” takes on a whole new meaning. Don’t people know how hard you worked to make the event happen? The cooking the night before. Buying the decorations. Setting up the tables. Slaving over the serving. Cleaning up afterwards… and all people mention is that “they” should have made more coffee and “they” weren’t very organized with the presentation. Really? Knowing how much work goes into every event, I’m sometimes gobsmacked at how many events there are. It’s amazing! And so often, all that the organizers ask for is for people to come and appreciate the fruit of their hard labors.

I became one of “them” first at church. I was 22 years old when I joined the Board of Deacons. A few years later I was on the Christian Education committee, and co-lead the Youth Group. We set up the Sunday School classes, and organized youth activities. I had a more experienced partner, so the full weight of being “them” didn’t rest on my shoulders. But after Grey was born, when he became a mobile toddler, I just couldn’t lead the youth group anymore. That’s when my mother-in-law told me that “they” would need to figure it out. And that’s when I realized, I was “them”.

And most critically, it’s a great honor and opportunity. You see, my mother-in-law is Catholic. In the Catholic hierarchy, a woman like me might do critical and important work. She might make the important things happen. She might be organizing, communicating, setting up and cleaning up. But as I understand that hierarchy, the “they” who make the critical decisions and hold the final responsibility are the ordained men.

Last week, as everyone who is friends with me on Facebook knows, our town held an election for the Board of Them. I mean, the Board of Selectman. Four people competed for two roles to be the “them” that needs to put together and balance our budget, create a strategic plan for our downtown, preserve our historic locations, ensure sensible planning and comply with state regulations. In exchange for these labors – hours of work every week – we offer $3000 a year and constant complaints about how they do it. (Oh, and the campaign to get the job almost certainly costs more than $3k.) I’m astonished that people are not only willing to do this hard, thankless work of being “them”… they’re willing to compete for the job.

I am more than halfway through my allotted three-score and ten years. I sometimes feel like I’m in the heart of my powers. I have enough experience to know what I’m doing (most of the time) and enough energy and strength to do it. That’s why I’m so busy – I can do the things that need doing. When someone says, “They should”… I sometimes feel that as a personal call now. Because I know that I am “them”.


In what circumstances are you “them”? Why do you choose to do that service? Why do you think other people are willing to be “them”? That time in your life to thank “them” for all that “they” do.

Posted on April 11, 2016April 9, 2016Categories Civic Engagement, Deep ThoughtsTags elections, organization, responsibility, them1 Comment on I am they

Stoneham Election: April 5, 2016

Stoneham is headed to the polls again on April 5, 2016 which is in a scant TWO WEEKS! (How is it almost April!) Once again, this is an entirely local election, where it is SO HARD to get information on the candidates. In fact, I challenge you to go find a copy of the ballot anywhere online. Go ahead. Try. (I couldn’t find one. I had to email asking for a copy of it.)

Here it is, for your edification: Stoneham MA April 2016 Election Ballot

This election is a little different for me in a few ways. The biggest difference is that I’m passionately enthusiastic for one of the candidates. I’ve known Anthony Wilson from his work on the Greenway, and I’m extremely impressed with him. That was a very fraught issue, with high feelings. Anthony stayed very factual, cheerful and always held to the high ground (even when I suspect it was tempting not to). His platform is centered on the crazy concept of “planning ahead” so that we capture capital requests in the budget and can make good decisions about where to allocate Stoneham’s resources. I think he will be a truly excellent Selectman for the town. Frankly, I’m really grateful he’s willing to run.

Thane thinks he'll be a great Selectman too!
Thane thinks he’ll be a great Selectman too!

I’m also really impressed with Rachel Meredith-Warren, who is running for school committee. She’s done a great job of reaching out to the community. She was a primary driver behind the Stoneham Square Strategic Action plan, which is doing amazing things for our little town. She’s also been involved with a bunch of really good work in Stoneham like the finance committee. Again, I feel lucky she’s willing to give us her time and talent, serving our kids and our community!

After that, my recommendations get a bit murkier.

Selectman
We have two open spots for selectman, and four candidates. I have considered casting only one vote, since I have such a strong preference for Anthony. (That makes it more likely he’d win, since there might be a scenario where my second vote propels a candidate into a slot ahead of him.) Although I’m still considering that, I think the rest of the three candidates are varied enough in their strengths that it may be worth casting a second vote. (BTW – if you want to decide for yourself, many of the candidates showed up for a recorded candidate forum with Stoneham TV)

Frank Vallerelli – if I cast a second vote, he’s likely to get it. Unfortunately, he has almost no information available online. In watching the selectmen during town meetings, he generally seems like a reasonable person who listens to speakers and constituents respectfully.

John DePinto – I can’t recommend voting for Mr. DePinto. John was an opponent to the Greenway, which I find hard see as a far-sighted choice. I did not appreciate the way he dealt with the public during Town Hall meetings, and he wasn’t responsive when I reached out to him during the Greenway period. I find it a little depressing he couldn’t show up for the candidate forum to help us understand what he would do with an additional term.

George Seibold – I recommend against voting for Mr. Seibold. He has zero information available online, which I think says something about how much candidates care about new voters and folks who didn’t grow up in town. (I think that’s true of Frank Vallerelli too, if you’re wondering.) In addition to his opposition to the Greenway, in his last tour as a selectman he tried to build a prison in Stoneham. Someone who thinks building a prison in one of Stoneham’s most beautiful locations is a great idea (and defends that position with the amazing statement “‘Personally, I’d be retired before this is all said and done. So it really wouldn’t affect me,'”), while arguing a bike path is a dangerous innovation… well, that’s not the kind of decision-making I want again.


I have heard generally positive things about incumbent Anthony Kennedy and newcomer Carol Murtone, but if anyone has some information or links on those races that would be useful, I’d love to see them.

So with no further ado, here’s my ballot for April 5:

Selectman:
Anthony Wilson
Frank Vallarelli

School Committee:
Rachel Meredith-Warren

Housing Authority:
Carole Mustone

Board of Assessors:
Anthony Kennedy


I would love any (polite! I’ll delete anything that is rude!) feedback or information you have on the Stoneham election that you think would make me decide differently. A big part of the reason I post these election posts is because it is really hard to find information on the local election when you did not grow up with half the candidates. I think it’s really important to have this information available online. So please – if you have any conversation to have, let’s have it here in the comments where other voters like me can see it too and decide for themselves. I will update my recommendations if new information comes in!

Posted on March 22, 2016March 23, 2016Categories Civic Engagement, StonehamTags anthony c kennedy, anthony wilson, april 5, carole mustone, Frank Vallarelli, george depinto, george seibold, rachel meredith-warren, stoneham, stoneham selectman, stoneham town election1 Comment on Stoneham Election: April 5, 2016
A very Stoneham Saturday

A very Stoneham Saturday

Grey the viking at Kushala Sip

Today was a clean-up, stay-at-home kind of Saturday. My folks left at first light, and I was left with a tired family and a pile of ignored chores. I realized on my fourth or so errand that today proved what an awesome town Stoneham is. Even though I took a car for one of these (due to heavy loads), everything I describe here is an easy walk from my house. So here you go.

11:00 am – Kushala Sip
I was ready for a little more than my usual morning coffee, but not quite a whole pot. What to do? Go down to the brand-spanking-new coffee shop that is now open on Stoneham’s Main Street – right across from the green. (Ample parking in back – just go in behind the Bank of America.) I brought my boys with me. I enjoyed a mocha while they had frozen hot cocoas (which they also enjoyed!) The staff is still learning the ropes of their new trade, so they’re figuring out hours, shifts and practicing their drinks. They’ll have a big grand opening when they feel ready, but until then they’re operating with limited hours.

Such big goofballs

11:30 am – Book Oasis
As long as we were down here anyway, Thane needs book #40 in the Magic Treehouse series. So perhaps a quick stop by the Book Oasis is what the doctor ordered. I should know better. There is no such thing as a quick stop. But both boys and I got books. If you live nearby and you’ve never been, you should absolutely make the trip. They have more titles than a big box store (like Barnes & Nobles) and excellent advice besides! Park behind Kushala Sip, grab a coffee, go the extra block to pick up something to read, and plop yourself on the common for a few chapters!

Farm Hill Flowers
Farm Hill Flowers

1:30 pm – O’Brien’s Farm Hill
My bleeding heart was totally done, and my columbine had gone to seed. Time for some new bedding plants. I’d noticed that O’Brien’s Farm Hill had just put up their plant sale sign, and stopped by. They had some really excellent planters at super reasonable prices, and I picked up a pair (plus some snapdragons and daisies) to refresh the front yard. They even dead-headed them as they loaded them into the car for me.

2:00 pm – Round’s Hardware
I also needed some mulch, so on my way back I stopped at Rounds and picked up a big bag of red mulch. They offered to put it in my car for me, but I told them that since they wouldn’t be around to take it out of my car, I’d better be able to manage it myself. I also tipped them off about Kushala Sip being around to meet their caffeination needs.

3:00 pm – City Cycle
My chores complete, it was time for a family bike ride! I’d dropped my bike off earlier to have a warped real wheel fixed, and I needed a new water holder for Thane’s bike. I had been there only the night before when they’d done a last minute repair to the brakes on my dad’s portable stool thingy. They had my bike ready in back, and installed the water holder for free. They’ve been prime enablers of our bike riding habit.

3:30 pm – Middlesex Fells Reservation
The Fells is only about a mile from our front door. For the first time ever, we started a bike trip without a bike carrier. Most of the roads between here and there are very local (we are not experienced road riders), so it wasn’t too terrifying to get to the Bear Hill trailhead. All of us are on road bikes, so even the bike trails on the Fells (which are unpaved) were a bit much. But we proved to ourselves that it could indeed be done.

5:00 pm – Dairy Dome
Having braved much on the roads and in the Fells, it seemed only meet to reward the stalwart adventurers with ice cream. We often walk here in the evening, but it was novel and exciting to stop on our bikes for some ice cream. Thus fortified, we returned home.

That, my friends, is a pretty great day in the Town of Stoneham. A friend accused me the other day of being a home town junkie. In truth, Stoneham isn’t my home town (and never will be). But it is my SON’S home town – the one I picked for them. And it’s a pretty great little town – only getting better with things like the Greenway, and the Stoneham Farmer’s Market. (I totally have a date on Thursday with a bunch of my parent-friends to meet up at the market next week and get pizza for dinner and listen to the free concert.) And there’s the parts of Stoneham that have been awesome for a long time, like the Youth Room in the Carnegie-built Stoneham Library which serves as our base for Library Pizza Night (now in it’s fourth year!)

After weeks of adventures, I’m glad to be right back here.

Posted on July 25, 2015Categories Civic Engagement, StonehamTags biking, book oasis, is stoneham a good town to live in, kushala sip, middlesex fells, o'briens farm hill, rounds hardware, should i move to stoneham, stoneham, stoneham library, why live in stonehamLeave a comment on A very Stoneham Saturday

One million bread tabs

Ten years ago, my mom decided to help her 6th grade class understand just how big a “million” is. We throw the word out lightly. “My mom told me like a million times to clean my room.” “There are a million legos in my son’s room which he hasn’t cleaned”.

It was a memorable moment in Austin Powers when a million dollars went from a lot of money to a trivial amount over the course of a few decades:

One million ... bread tabs?
One million … bread tabs?

Anyway, she’s at just about the halfway mark of the million bread tabs. She does not plan on teaching for another ten years, though, so it’s time to hit the gas on the project!

http://milliontabs.com

We’re asking you to save your bread tabs, and then send them in to the school to help them in their quest for a million.

The address is:

Columbia Crest A-STEM Academy
24503 SR 706E
Ashford, WA 98304

(If I see you in person, I’m happy to send them myself!)

Posted on April 28, 2015Categories Civic Engagement, FamilyTags 1000000, bread tabs, million, school projectsLeave a comment on One million bread tabs

Extremely unofficial Stoneham election results (2015 edition)

According to a friend who watched Stoneham TV while they reported election results (note to self: figure out where these things happen and pay attention in advance), the Stoneham election has been called. Since I was out there encouraging all y’all to vote, I figure I should tell you how it turned out!

Selectmen:
– Caroline Colarusso
– Tom Boussy

Moderator:
– Larry Means

I never did figure out how to vote for planning board or the other contested position. If anyone has advice on what I should have done to be informed, I’m all ears!

The margin of victory was very narrow (according to what I heard). Only about 100 votes made the difference between the visions which will guide our town for the next several years. For all those who turned out – your vote was critically important and made a real difference. Thank you for doing your part to keep democracy a reflection of the will of the people.

Congrats to our newly elected leaders! I have confidence you’ll do an amazing job. Thanks to all who ran and who declared their willingness to serve their community. It’s a difficult and thankless task, and I’m grateful we have people willing to spend time and effort in both pursuing and executing it!

PS – Actual more official unofficial tallies here – now with real numbers! http://stoneham.wickedlocal.com/article/20150407/NEWS/150406930

Posted on April 7, 2015April 7, 2015Categories Civic EngagementTags democracy, election, selectman, selectwoman, stoneham, town moderator, votingLeave a comment on Extremely unofficial Stoneham election results (2015 edition)

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